Monday, February 05, 2007

Men What Women Really Want

Men are often asking themselves what do women really want of course this can be debatable depending upon what kind of relationship you're looking for and personal experience. Also, preference do change over time.

First let me state a man doesn't have to be the tallest, most handsome, well built or most successful. I am not saying that these traits don't ever matter, of course they do. What woman wouldn't want a tall handsome rich guy? Truth of the matter is there are far more men with potential than Rockerfellow pockets.

My dream man was all of the above plus generous, understanding, good sense of humor, king in the sack and adventurous. Now I am almost willing to settle for kind, breathing and a good pension plan. Notice I said almost.

Guys you may be a great person and have sensational traits, but let's be real - personal appearance is important. Women don't want to be seen with a man with bad skin and dirty hair. If your complexion is full of zits, how can she get a good look at you?

Tip #1. Get yourself a good skincare product to keep your face clear of blemishes. Skincare for men is acceptable as evidenced by the increasing number companies catering to men such as the celebrities favorite Zirh. Proactiv is another excellent skincare program. (I never believed in the commercial until I went on vacation and forgot to pack my skincare. My host offered me Proactiv, it made my skin flawless in two weeks, although I saw a difference in 3 days).

Tip #2. Women love to be told how unforgettable they are. Example: "I think about you all the time, I can't work because you're always on my mind". A phone call to say I am think about you and had to call just to hear your voice will lift her higher than a kite, then you are on her mind.

Tip #3. Take time to talk to her, find out what she likes, favorite flower, perfume, color, etc. Then surprise her even if it isn't her birthday. Don't visit empty handed, if you can't buy a dozen roses, get one with a ribbon tied around it or buy a lovely card to express what you are feeling. My friend got excited every time her boy friend drew her a card or made breakfast for her in bed. Bottom line make her feel important.

Tip #4. Women love a delicious smelling man. A good smelling fragrance on a man can make a woman follow him to hell and back. Maybe you have heard women say "he smelled so good, I wanted to take him home with me".

This is a true story - one day I was walking to work and saw a man coming toward me, he was short, fat, well dressed, wearing a Derby hat on his head swinging an umbrella with confidence. His hair was red, red mustache and turned up beard, not one trait that interested me. When I passed him, I turn around in a circle and began following him. He smelled so good, it was as if his fragrance grab me and said follow me girl!

Tip #5. Check your teeth and breath. Yellow teeth, bad teeth, bad breath - Conversation won't last long with any of the aforementioned. If you need a dentist, no matter how afraid you are, please see one, women are turned off by all three.

Tip #6. Groom your fingernails, dirt under your fingernails is a no no. After all you never know where your fingers will end up.

Tip #7. Last but not least, a woman wants a man who can rock her world in the bedroom. Can't give any details here, but I came across a site that give seminars in enhancing relationships.

To sum it all up, men women want a man who smell delicious, care about his appearance and someone who will make her feel as if she's the only woman in the world for you.

Hope you found this post interesting.

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